Just as Mary was chosen to be the mother of Jesus through the miraculous virgin birth. So too, was Joseph chosen by God to be the earthly father of our Savior, Jesus. This was not how Joseph had planned to begin his married life with Mary. God had a bigger plan for Mary and Joseph. We don't always understand the big picture, but the best way to show God our love is simply to obey Him. Joseph stayed focused on God and was willing to be used by Him.
God has the full authority and the right to bring your life into sync with His plans through whatever He deems necessary. Would you be a willing participant to bring about His plans today?